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Achieve Your Full Potential: Tips for Becoming the Best Version of You (Mind Shift by Erwin McManus)

Updated: Oct 30, 2023

Welcome to the Keto Mom page, my name is Stephanie. We're going talk about how to Achieve Your Full Potential: Tips for Becoming the Best Version of You (Mind Shift by Erwin McManus). In the mornings, we work together on your mindset and in helping you think positively. To help you look at life with a different perspective and realize that you are blessed.


You become like the top five people you're around with. If you're single, you might be asking where or how can you find the right person you're supposed to marry. You've got this image in your head.

Oftentimes people in different communities get in different environments and be around different people. Some of their friends might be negative and so they ask how can they find better people who are pursuing better in their lives?

How do we find people that are excited about life?

How do we find people who are not negative?

How do we find those people?


"You find what you are. You need to become the right person. You need to understand that that's a universal principle. If you are compassionate, you will find compassionate people all over the world. If you love adventure, you will find adventurous people all over the world. If you are trustworthy, you will find trustworthy people. If you are hopeful you will find people full of hope. The world is full of people just like you, but know that you will not find what you are looking for. You will find what you are."

For those of you asking, "How do I find these people?", or "How do I find the people who are encouraging?"... The answer is you become that person and you attract that by becoming it first.

It's something we talked to about with our girls. They are aged 16,14,12 and 10 years old. They talk about getting married and their future husbands. Our 16 and 14 year old have a "Dear future husband" journal. But what we always coach them about, as parents is, if they want these characteristics for their future husbands, they need to have those characteristics first.

You've got to work on yourself first in order to attract those people. Everybody has a frequency, and yours might be grabbing the people that are like you currently. So if you feel like everybody around you is negative, think about the frequency that you're putting out. You have to understand that you've got to work on yourself first. You've got to work on your character and principles in the person that you're becoming. And as you do that, you'll attract those kinds of people too.

"If you have become convinced that everybody is the same, it's because you are still the same. If you want to upgrade the kind of people in your life, you need to upgrade your life".

I think that's super, super powerful. It's really just a simple concept. It's a simple idea to simplify.


Here's the mind shift: You will find in the world, what you bring to the world. Stop expecting people to be different, until you are different. Don't expect to find better people until you you are committed to becoming a better person. Change the world within you and you will change the world around you.

"In fact, the opposite works just as powerful. Change what you believe about people and you will change the people that are drawn to you".

Love is a frequency.

Hope is a frequency

Faith is a frequency.

Courage has a frequency.

Integrity has a frequency.

Compassion, generosity, and so much more.

You attract the person who you currently are. I want you to become the best version of you. I want you to be better and be stronger. I want you to have a better marriage, become a better mom or a dad, employee or a boss. Think about who you actually are, your character, the things that you're putting out, and the things that people see in you. Because you attract that.

If you are constantly getting negative people in your circle, just stop for a second and look at your inner you. The words that came out of your mouth are not positive. You need to be real with yourself, you need to change and work on your character. You need to work on the words that are coming out of your mouth. You are a reflection of the people around you.

Have patience, give it time, and continue to be the best version of yourself. You're going to see people differently and you're going to see the positive in people.

Speak life into people.

Encourage people

Help people on their journey to become the best versions of themselves.

"You find in the world what you bring to the world".

Thank you for tuning in, your presence matters. You can actually find a community of people with me here in the Keto Mom page.

How do I work on personal development?

How do I become the best version of myself?

What does that look like?

How do I have fun?

How do I transform my mind?

How do I get around these like-minded people?

I am one of those people! You can find all sorts of people online and that includes our community here. Some people love to get together to push and encourage each other. I want you to become the person you're looking for and that will attract the people around you. Thank you for tuning in, your presence matters. Have a wonderful day and we'll talk to you very soon. Bye everybody!

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